Love and Respect For God

“I ask you, therefore, not to be discouraged because of my sufferings for you, which are your glory. For this reason I kneel before the Father, …” Ephesians 3:13-14

This is a curious segment of scripture. Briefly, there is the connection between what Paul had just been writing about (salvation in Jesus) and the discouragement his friends felt at his suffering. In fact, suffering *for* them. I may come back to this. But for the moment, I am drawn to Paul’s prayer.

I am struck by Paul’s description: “I kneel before the Father.” Kneeling is an act of respect and submission. Father is a term of family and connection.

As much as bold and confident access that we have with our Father God (see my previous post), he is worthy of worship and honor. Seriously, God is to be literally (really literal, not fake “literal”) worshipped and given unshared highest honor.

That is, while we have access to our Father, there ought to be nothing flippant about our relationship with him. We may, in fact, be even angry with God and express that fully and with great vigor. But eventually (if our relationship is healthy), we calm down recognize our loss of perspective and move on.

Just as we should respect our good earthly fathers, no matter how good our relationship with them is, we should not only be loving to our parent but also respectful. Both love and respect are important to healthy relationships. With our relationship with God, our closeness and intimacy (that has become a ‘weird’ word in the early 21^st century) still do not diminish God’s place and role as Creator and Judge.

I am reminded of my friend whose father was a major executive of a big corporation. When my friend worked in the mailroom during the summers, he occasionally would deliver mail to his dad’s office. He had “privileged access” to that office that even direct-report Directors did not have. For my friend, Dad was still Dad; he was hardly ever Executive Vice President Mr. Smith. But that didn’t mean my friend would address his dad in any context using a nick-name or “Hey, you!” Good relationship, instant access, and lots of appropriate respect.

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I can seek out God’s presence, but I cannot treat him as if he were not God. While I am human, the apex of God’s creation, God still remains God!

Bold Confidence

“According to his eternal purpose that he accomplished in Christ Jesus our Lord. In whom we have boldness and confident access through faith in him.” Eph 3:11-12

In a reversal of what is sometimes taught and preached, this text does not encourage us to wait for God’s presence but to actively and confidently seek it. “Boldness, “access,” and “confidence” are the postures we have – right now – because of what Jesus has done. We – as Jesus People – do not have to wait; do not have to perform any particular ritual; do not have to engage any particular deep spiritual practice. We have bold access to God right away.

Now, this can be intimidating.

I don’t know about you, but I’m a pretty broken and goofed up person. I am not very excited about going boldly to a perfect and holy God. I know enough of myself to realize that I am “not all that and a bag of chips.”

But the text rebuts me before I can even form those thoughts. Something was Accomplished. God had this plan worked out from eternity past. The work was finished by Jesus Christ. The confident access we have is through our faith in Jesus. Jesus gives me the “All Access” pass; he gets me past the rope line; he escorts me past the bouncer at the door.

And all of that seems shallow indeed when I realize that Jesus fixes my brokenness in preparation for that access. He heals, he cleans me up, and he gives me sharp-looking suits. Sure, I might be stretching an analogy there – but the point is that this access is not based on my messed up stuff (which God knows ALL about), it is based on the work Jesus did.

Jesus fixes us, he gives us some basic tools to take up his mission, and he gives us clear instructions (as well as informed discretion) to get out there and do his work.

This presents a compelling picture of God raising up a repaired, equipped, and trusted people to fulfill our God-created purpose.

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Summary: In Christ (an important qualifier!), though we are frail and broken, we have been made great.